T-roy tries Bumbl and Match

[NormalDan]

She made a comment about him relative to other actuaries so that was my conclusion as well

[John.S.Mill]

I mean, look at me and look at you

[NormalDan]

fair point, assuming I get your meaning

[T-roy]

Hmmm, maybe now that I think of it

[T-roy]

Good point, and thank you

[Breadmaker]

I was thinking real estate too.

You go, T-Roy!!!

[T-roy]

I was right. A quick google search ID’d her as one. She should do some housekeeping on her Realty Bio. Says she likes spending time with Husband and adult daughters…Yikes. She might be really new to divorce.

[NormalDan]

Don’t mention the exams… I mentioned them once but I think I got away with it

[JFG]

@T-roy

We messaged for two days. The second day she said she was going for a hike when she gets off of work. I asked her if she’s ever done the Radnor Lake trail. She said it was her fav. I took advantage of this and asked her to go the next day. She agreed. Over the next day we’ve been messaging back and fourth. She told me she is feminist. I didn’t pick up on that through our conversation at all. I am not physically attracted to her.

Good move on your part to meet in person quickly. The lack of attraction out of the gate is disappointing. Not sure if that is changeable?

@DeepPurple

Also, it seems like way to soon. If you texted her last thing last night, then hit her back first thing in the AM. It seems too eager for a first impression-type state of getting to know her.

She does seem eager and the Prince Charming thing seems over the top but suggest meeting in person if you think she seems interesting.

[ArthurItas]

Could be a really old work profile too.

[MayanActuary]

@T-roy

The princess comment threw up a red flag at first

I think the Princess / Prince Charming thing is potentially a bit of a word play on Frozen and all the Disney princesses- any woman into frozen is worth pursuing imo.

[ArthurItas]

I nominate this post for this thread: Social question - how much to reveal to someone about how much you know about them? - #18 by Chewbacca

[DeepPurple]

@Breadmaker

I was thinking real estate too

Real Estate is a turn off.

80% chance that she is not making any real money at it.
20% chance that she is and she works all the time

[T-roy]

I’ll go back to just the first letter of the names and reveal less of them. I more want the conversation ideas. I’m starting to get the jist of what to say first/next though.

[1695814]

@ArthurItas

Could be a really old work profile too.

I’m guessing that it’s more along the lines of marketing…potential-clients may like that she’s a “family-woman”…whatever the hell that is.

[Lucy]

I can still find my husband’s “work profile” for a company that laid him off, and then went belly up, a couple of years ago. It includes a nice photo of him holding a cat who is no longer with us.

Yeah, these things can be out of date.

[T-roy]

She’s (I1) been giving me a lot of attention since the date. She called me last night at 10, said I was “the whole package” and that she was surprised “I wasn’t already taken”. She’s certainly hitting my love language with all the affirmation.

[NormalDan]

Oh wow that sounds great!

[Rastiln]

Nice!

[T-roy]

I1 and I have been texting back and fourth. There is no spark for me. I dont want to move forward with her.