This is true- we did meet IRL once and so we each know our real names. I assume the google got the home address (there is only one of me, as discussed in some other thread).
That said, explaining to mrs f how a woman i met once IRL and communicate with regularly online is sending me gifts by delivery on the same day I mentioned a problem…she does know of the strong connections i have w several online actuaries. fortunately she no longer questions these connections as odd or problematic.
that said, I am out for overnight meetups/ “-taculars” all the same, bc it strays too close to a fear she has of becoming a Lifetime Original Movie. Since she is too old to be abducted and trafficked and killed by the pimp, the double life spouse is where all the fear lies.
I, too, got a nap. Fell asleep after dinner and before the kids’ bedtime, slept for two hours, woke up in time to put the kids to bed. Watched an episode of Murder She Wrote and Murderville. Now I’m wide awake.
Back to the office tomorrow after nearly two years of telecommuting, which I’ve enjoyed thoroughly. I’ve only been back a few intermittent days, then sent home again. Hopefully this means the COVID crisis is finally abating.