My lack of ability to plan a real vacation. Upon reflection, I realized mr aj & I have had only one vacation that wasn’t with family or didn’t revolve around a family event, thus mostly being planned for us. The one vacation was a road trip that was planned very spur of the moment, which is not really possible to do right now bc of the sheer # of people traveling.
I have concluded that we are not vacation people. It makes me sad, but I need to either accept this or I will continue to be frustrated by it.
I am sort of the same. I planned one (cruise) and even on that, most of it was scripted for us - which was fine by me!
i struggle to even take the time at work. Others block the time (bc they plan and take real trips/time away with actual planning) and i end up feeling like i need to stay or we are too short on people.
other dynamic is mrs f does not plan like that and views vacation as time to go and chill somewhere. I am not a great chiller and so hard to plan when one wants to do stuff and other wants to chill.
all agree that we need time somewhere else or away from work and home.
I’m wrong about deciding what things I don’t care about?
Who do you think you are that you can make me care? I’m supposed to love or hate milk in a plastic bag, but I cannot just be “meh” about bagged milk? Because you say so?
No, but ages ago I had a boss whose last name was Morton. I had to be extremely careful because spellcheck always wanted to make it Moron. And back then I don’t think you could add words to the dictionary. (If you could I didn’t know how, or even that it was an option.)
Of course the one time that I didn’t catch it was on an email where I was pointedly disagreeing with my boss.
Fortunately others screwed this up with some regularity.
