But now I haven’t been on Facebook in months. I have no idea what my friends are posting these days.
My point is you said people left because of her message about the video.
Correlation is not causation.
Maybe they just left after that DM filtered to the top of their list and they figured they didn’t need to be in the conversation any more. Just because they were not interested in the video pitch and left doesn’t mean they left because of the video pitch.
I will give you a great analogy.
My son was on a baseball team last year, and we had a text chain going. He’s no longer on the team. The other day, someone asked if there would be winter practice. Since I was no longer interested in the thread, I took myself out of it. It had nothing to do with the mom’s question, it’s just that I no longer had use of the chain.
you have an odd definition of “great”. that’s a terrible analogy.
they weren’t trying to sell you anything. they didn’t need your input as your kid is no longer on the team and it’s therefore not relevant to you at all. in my thread she was trying to sell something. her tactic failed.
this thread was about alumni stuff. we are all still alumni.
if she said “come get girl scout cookies” I still would have left. Point is, the thread was no longer useful to me. Same as with, I guess, those folks who left your DM group. It was seven years! They probably mostly forgot that the group existed.
you have no point since the thread was about reminiscing about elementary school, not organizing a baseball team that you’re no longer in.
the point is also that her tactic is a failure. do you disagree with this?
I do not.
Thats really my only point. Nobody in the dm who she spammed had any interest at all in what she was selling
Could you guys take this exchange to Facebook where it belongs?
BG5150 hasn’t friended me on facebook.
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I’m not under 35. Why would it matter to me what people under 35 use? Is there a reason I need to model my life on what people under 35 do? I’m on both instagram and facebook, but instagram is basically facebook with more pictures and less talking. It feeds to facebook so people duplicate posts on each.
I am on discord as a flashchat type thing. Discord is pretty different than social media.
got in a fight with bitch who is peddling her song again as she is now instigating me. another person left the chat in response after saying nothing. if this song is successful, i’m going to be sad. she probably doesn’t even know how to read music. she’s such a moron. she was “executive producer” whatever that means and did some bitch lines in the song.
on her page she was asking people to vote for her song on some matchup to get on a play list. i’m continually clicking on it and voting for the other song.
In looking at who hasn’t fled the group chat, it appears to be only people who are actually facebook friends with her now plus me. Anyone else who isn’t her facebook friend, left the chat. I think that says something.
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The jerk who ignored my happy birthday greeting and his wife are currently vacationing in manhattan.
They posted a photo dump of 130 pictures from just one day. These pictures are not interesting at all, like heres a tree in central park, and oooh heres another tree in central park. Does anyone really need THIS many mundane pictures?
The comments are on how much fun it looks. Im thinking this looks terrible. Maybe im just very pissed off at nyc right now and im triggered
Maybe you should reply with: heres a photo of the manhole outside my building, here’s a dog that took a dump in the park,…
i have a question
i haven’t seen any posts by a mid 20’s relative in over 2 years on fb. used to see pictures all the time. the fb posts ended when covid became a thing.
did she -
- stop posting on fb entirely?
- block me from all her posts for some odd 20 something rational?
Ask your mom if she can see Cousin’s posts. Then you’ll have your answer.
mother isn’t fb friends with her. my sister is. i can ask her, but i suspect if i’m blocked, my sister likely is too.
i assume you can click their profile and find out if you are still friends? or if you were not, cousin may have changed settings of who can see posts to something that excludes you (and others) broadly. or cousin may have blocked you.
we are still friends. that’s not what i’m questioning. i’m asking if she changed her settings to disallow me from seeing anything from april 2020 and later.