She planned a trip for you without including you in any of the planning? If that’s how your relationship operates then awesome, but that’s the part that would annoy me.
If I waited for Mr aj to plan trips I’d still be waiting. Most recently I book a hotel room for Dec 31-Jan 2 and then told him, “Oh yeah we’re going to visit family New Years weekend.
I would actually love it if he would take the initiative on something like this. As long as he gave me a head’s up on when to schedule days off work.
We were talking about it and I didn’t realize she booked a place.
Whenever we go anywhere, I let her take care of the arrangements.
If I go someplace on business, I let the office manager make the arrangements.
Because if it was up to me to make the arrangements, I/we’d never go anywhere. While that is fine with me, it would put a strain on the relationship. I’m a good compromiser (At least I think so), but I can still be annoyed at it…
If you get a room with a microwave maybe you can justify eating in because you want to try the wine beer you purchased with food. Maybe take some Diwali leftovers.