Katie Crutchfield (of the band Waxahatchee) put her arm around me at a concert last night!
Iām gonna guess that it was pretty dark where you were.
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ETA: For how many Mississippis??? DId you get a shoulder squeeze tooooooo??? ![]()
Long enough to take a few pics! I am a bit of a music nerd and Iāve enjoyed her music since I discovered her around 2012. She was somewhat obscure back then, but sheās kind of blowing up now. Sheās done the Tonight Show, Tiny Desk, and her most recent album got a Grammy nomination.
She seemed genuinely excited, I think she is at the stage where music nerds know her but she probably doesnāt get mobbed in public or anything.
BF and I met on Facebook Dating, which I joined in 3rd quarter 2023, met BF maybe ~3 or 4 weeks in, and have been ātaking a breakā ever since.
I just today got a like from another guy. I think ātaking a breakā means that no new guys can see my profile. So Iām assuming this must be someone that I had ālikedā in 2023 who is just now in 2025 ālikingā me back.
Sorry buddy⦠that ship has sailed. Iām in what is easily the best relationship of my life (an admittedly low bar) so⦠no longer interested.
FB has a Dating page??? ![]()
Some kinda popcorn meme goes here, as appropriate.
They do. I was kind of on the fence about dating as it had only been a year since STBX and I separated.
But itās free and I was feeling like maybe I was ready so I figured Iād give it a try. I talked to several guys, went out on a comically colossally awful, awful date, went out on a date with an extremely nice man who was 10.5 years older than me and I decided that was too big a difference, and I met my boyfriend⦠I wasnāt positive after the first date but after the second date⦠no looking back.
I wonder if he only just finished watching the 2023 Tour de France.
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OMG, that would be hilarious!
Sadly, BF is not a big TDF aficionado. Which is really the most trivial minus ever. Itās really perfectly fine to have stuff I watch on my own.
I HAVE A CHANCE!
The last couple of times I went to pick up prescriptions, the pharmacist would wave me over, even if he was already dealing with another customer. Aw yeeeeeeeeah!!!
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Young fella at the Cobās bakery joked he was gonna give me the whole sheet tray of focaccia, since it wasnāt sliced up yet.
He lost points when I gave him $20.25 for the $5.20 slice, but he handed me back the quarter and $14.80.
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IFYP I too was young and dumb at one stage - although not when it came to change
maybe he didnāt have any nickels
Thanks Trump
Part of my change was a nickel. Mebbe he saw a soowahv, deeeeboner, sophistimicated older gent and put on a little ruse to brush fingertips a SECOND TIME!!!
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Someone in my dance class just got some nice high heel dance shoes so after they asked me to dance, I told them how much I like them (the shoes that is). Hopefully that wasnāt too forward.
And since I believe in asking for what I want, I later asked a cis dude where he buys his heels.


Isnāt that virtually a marriage proposal for an actuary?
I was watching the sbux barista fill up the whipped cream dispenser. She smiled back at MEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
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