Thread to post insignificant signals / advances by the opposite (or same) sex

Being married doesn’t mean a guy can’t flirt, does it?

Can’t and shouldn’t are two different things.

Anyway, we’re extending an offer to the candidate I’ve been taking to. After seeing her interact with others, definitely not flirting, she really does just have that bubbly a personality

I’d describe your last 2 stories as beyond flirting. That’s getting hit on, which is always over the line unless someone is in an open relationship.

Or separated… or single

Sure. twig said they were married dudes.

Yeah, I mean the client basically asked me out.

Elementary School Guy was maybe more borderline between flirting vs hitting on, but pretty inappropriate for a married guy regardless. That’s a pretty fine line, really… not one I have interest in splitting hairs over.

If you’re in an exclusive relationship, don’t hide anything from your partner and don’t give your partner any reason to be worried.

No… he pretty directly asked you out

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What I got out of this is teen twig’s in his spank bank.

I mean, if he wasn’t a creep about it, it would be kinda sweet that he regretted ditching her, all these years later

Yeah, I summarized several messages over several days and as I said there were mundane bits running through all the people we both know.

At first it was fine but then he got weird about it.

:nauseated_face:

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There was a cute girl using the crosswalk at the mall: I stopped my car and waved her through. She smiled back at me!!! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: :sparkling_heart: :heavy_heart_exclamation: :heart: :orange_heart: :blue_heart: :purple_heart: :brown_heart:

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:popcorn:

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I mean, there probably won’t be any more updates. He’s sent me 3 replies that I haven’t answered / won’t be answering.

I assume he’s received the message at this point and will disappear into the ether for another 30+ years.

But if I get any more insignificant signals I’ll be sure to post about them.

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:iat :popcorn: :

I can’t wait for the update. Need to put a reminder on my calendar

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30 years from now:

twig: dude from my elementary school told me that my walker looked good, but would look better on his bedroom floor.

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Or should I have gone with “you can play my bingo card anytime”?