I, too, look forward to my company’s blowout holiday celebration. An early release and perhaps a nice “wishing you and yours the very best in whatever form you celebrate, or don’t” mass email from the ceo.
I’m pretty meh about corporate Christmas parties. I’d go back when I was in that world, but never got tipsy and we didn’t stay til the end. The most memorable part was when people were taken back at how hawt my wife is lol. I guess they weren’t expecting that.
I’m not doing Christmas parties anymore. Instead we entertain. This year we are having a handful of my industry friends over plus our staff. Close, small group, it’s casual and a lot of fun. Food will be my spouse’s prime rib, and I’ll do my famous french fries. Our dining table seats 12-14 so we just all sit around and eat and bullshit for a few hours. Don’t even have to get dressed up.
I haven’t worked for a company with a holiday party since I stopped drinking. And I think it’s for the best. The parties were far more awkward than fun, someone ended up doing something stupid (sometimes that person was me), I never felt any sense of boosted morale, not everyone celebrates the holidays, and they were only optional on paper. So, I am actually very glad to never attend one again.
I used to be quite a drinker, but nonetheless was looking at my coworkers at the last party attended, like… “You all have to drive 30+ minutes home… I sure as shit hope you all have DDs like I do.”
Walking half a mile home in a snowstorm shitfaced is actually how I was the holiday party idiot one year! I fell, sprained my MCL, at least didn’t require surgery.
Yes, driving after drinking is something so many people around here do, and it’s scary.
Agreed, recently there is an uptick in N/A acceptance and drink availability, and I definitely appreciate it. This is in the US. Wasn’t the case at said party in my past. However, since then when my companies have given alcohol to employees I’ve often seen an N/A option beyond the astoundingly bad O’Douls.
I could definitely see that being popular here if they were available (bowling alleys are actually hard to find in London). We tend to do Escape Rooms here (quite a few around).
we have a year end party. at a place w upscale bar and food and also some bowling lanes. it’s a decent time. I don’t get drunk at it. we leave the office at 130 to make it happen.
company holiday party 15 years ago (yikes) was a ton of people bombed. hotel rooms rented and taxis ordered for as many as asked. i drove home (0 drinks that night) as that employer is where I discovered the NA beer as way to avoid the fiasco. i do not fit in with a “lets get bombed!” crowd at all now (if ever).
my corner of the industry has events i attend (like 6 a year) where it is non stop drinking well and eating well on the company dime with most of the team present. we don’t need another one on my actual free time.