# Thread to post insignificant signals / advances by the opposite (or same) sex **URL:** \ **Category:** General\ **Created:** [December 17, 2020, 11:18pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567 "2020-12-17T23:18:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2020, 11:18pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/1 "2020-12-17T23:18:26Z")
The barista at my regular sbux keeps thinking my name is Brian, but she caught herself and said (real name). Next thing you know, she has a pen out and is asking me for my number. N.B. I slightly altered the title from the AO thread, 'cuz I am an open-minded, non-judgmental kinda guy!!! ---
**Author:** ![John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/john.s.mill/32/9771_2.png) [@John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/u/John.S.Mill)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2020, 11:29pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/2 "2020-12-17T23:29:53Z")
Straight guy: every gay guy ever!! ---
**Author:** ![dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/dr_t_non-fan)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2020, 11:32pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/3 "2020-12-17T23:32:07Z")
So your name is actually “Brain”?? What are we going to do tonight? ---
**Author:** ![John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/john.s.mill/32/9771_2.png) [@John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/u/John.S.Mill)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2020, 11:36pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/4 "2020-12-17T23:36:53Z")
For her to get Brian wrong, it’s probably something very unexpected. Like Briana, for a masc jock. ---
**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2020, 11:55pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/5 "2020-12-17T23:55:30Z")
What we do every night. ---
**Author:** ![dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/dr_t_non-fan)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 12:00am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/6 "2020-12-18T00:00:03Z")
So, what are the chances that this time, I’m pondering what you’re pondering? ---
**Author:** ![dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/dr_t_non-fan)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 12:06am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/7 "2020-12-18T00:06:20Z")
B: Pinky, AYPWIP? P: I think so, Brain, but if they called them sad meals, kids wouldn’t buy them. Oh, here are all of them, I think, in a 1999-ish font and web page: > **[THE COMPLETE PONDERING LIST](https://monkey.org/~scottij/ponderin.html)** ---
**Author:** ![NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/normaldan/32/1013_2.png) [@NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NormalDan)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 3:13pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/8 "2020-12-18T15:13:47Z")
> [@Breadmaker](#): > > she has a pen out and is asking me for my number. who says actuaries don’t have game ---
**Author:** ![JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/jfg/32/8801_2.png) [@JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/u/JFG)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 4:15pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/9 "2020-12-18T16:15:03Z")
She picked up on his signaling of sandals with socks, showing her what’s underneath those shoes. 😏 ---
**Author:** ![NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/normaldan/32/1013_2.png) [@NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NormalDan)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 4:19pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/10 "2020-12-18T16:19:15Z")
🤣 actuarial flashing ---
**Author:** ![JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/jfg/32/8801_2.png) [@JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/u/JFG)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 4:59pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/11 "2020-12-18T16:59:01Z")
Actuarial mating call: shoe removal ---
**Author:** ![ViceFleeble](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/vicefleeble/32/74484_2.png) [@ViceFleeble](https://community.goactuary.com/u/ViceFleeble)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 5:16pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/12 "2020-12-18T17:16:01Z")
![image](https://community.goactuary.com/uploads/default/original/2X/5/5981d116dcaa3947853cd22c0eb2a750e7b2c0cc.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 5:56pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/13 "2020-12-18T17:56:55Z")
Some people are into toe cleavage, IYKWIM. 😈 ---
**Author:** ![ViceFleeble](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/vicefleeble/32/74484_2.png) [@ViceFleeble](https://community.goactuary.com/u/ViceFleeble)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 6:14pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/14 "2020-12-18T18:14:10Z")
Never knew that toe cleavage was a thing till I first got married, then when some random woman on a train showed me hers I figured that it was a significant signal. ---
**Author:** ![NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/normaldan/32/1013_2.png) [@NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NormalDan)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 6:15pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/15 "2020-12-18T18:15:36Z")
And thus a new actuary was born ---
**Author:** ![S.Morgenstern](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/s.morgenstern/32/29540_2.png) [@S.Morgenstern](https://community.goactuary.com/u/S.Morgenstern)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 7:24pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/16 "2020-12-18T19:24:25Z")
> [@Breadmaker](#): > > she has a pen out and is asking me for my number So . . . did you give her that piece of paper with a number on it? Or did you keep it as a replica of the ears of Souven? ---
**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2020, 7:45pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/17 "2020-12-18T19:45:07Z")
She was putting it on a COVID tracking form, but we all know what was really going on, riiiiiight??? ---
**Author:** ![Tiffany](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/tiffany/32/7975_2.png) [@Tiffany](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Tiffany)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2020, 4:22pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/18 "2020-12-23T16:22:03Z")
I feel like this counts… My husband sometimes does inconsequential things like putting on pants, and it definitely feels like an advance. He’s too damn cute in his jeans today. ---
**Author:** ![NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/normaldan/32/1013_2.png) [@NormalDan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NormalDan)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2020, 4:35pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/19 "2020-12-23T16:35:19Z")
> [@Tiffany](#): > > putting on pants I’d think the taking off pants would feel more like an advance than the putting on ---
**Author:** ![John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/john.s.mill/32/9771_2.png) [@John.S.Mill](https://community.goactuary.com/u/John.S.Mill)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2020, 4:44pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567/20 "2020-12-23T16:44:40Z")
> [@NormalDan](#): > > I’d think the taking off pants would feel more like an advance than the putting on how dare you question their kinks. (she meant panties) [Next page](https://community.goactuary.com/t/thread-to-post-insignificant-signals-advances-by-the-opposite-or-same-sex/1567.md?page=2)