Bored. But just putting it out there. It’s actually one of the less emotional breakups, as many of the concerns are mutual. Won’t get into details, but a lot to sort out. we’re not married but own a house together. Luckily for us, the housing market is HOT, so hopefully we both profit some.
Otherwise, as a single gay man, I am returning from suburban house life back to luxury apartment city life. I don’t mind. I get nostalgic of city life. I may even leave the city I’m in and travel to other cities to try things out, particularly the cliched gay mecca - west hollywood.
I’m in my 30s, so partying it up during this single period sounds freeing. Maybe I’ll find a zaddy.
That’s all. All the closeted ao gay ppl holler for questions.
Nah, actually we do well during quarantine. We’re not very interactive anymore. And I can sense that he’s not getting happier over time, resulting in more and more drinking.
Call me old fashioned, but I actually want to be with someone that enjoys me as much as I enjoy them.
Sorry for the breakup, even if it is less emotional than others you’ve been through. I hope you both make it through and are better for the relationship, and the completion of the relationship.
Urban Dictionary defines a Zaddy as “a really handsome guy who is very appealing and looks really fashionable. He has to have swag and sex appeal and look sexy and attractive.”
A zaddy is usually hot, and rich. As opposed to the traditional sugar daddy, who is rich, but fugly.
Apparently from a song title:
"Zaddy " originated from a 2016 Ty Dolla $ign song by the same name. … While a daddy is an attractive older man, a zaddy is a man “with swag” who is attractive and also fashionable. It appears that it has less to do with age.
