# Mixed Thoughts

**URL:** <https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623>\
**Category:** General\
**Tags:** reactions\
**Created:** [March 23, 2026, 3:59pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623 "2026-03-23T15:59:08Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 16\
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**Author:** ![tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/b5a626/32.png) [@tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/u/tommie.frazier)\
**Post date:** [July 7, 2026, 7:04pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/61 "2026-07-07T19:04:59Z")

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there’s a joke in there, but in office is average of 4 days.

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**Author:** ![JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/jfg/32/8801_2.png) [@JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/u/JFG)\
**Post date:** [July 8, 2026, 10:04pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/62 "2026-07-08T22:04:40Z")

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I accidentally separated the door shelf in the freezer. As I was taking everything out to fix the shelf, I found a frozen Reese’s peanut butter cup.

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**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2026, 2:04am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/63 "2026-07-10T02:04:14Z")

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There’s a sourdough class happening in my area next month. I am giving it some thought. 🤔

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**Author:** ![SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/spacelobster/32/38216_2.png) [@SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SpaceLobster)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2026, 3:33pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/64 "2026-07-16T15:33:57Z")

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Last three weeks have been slow in terms of sales. I get a bit stressed, homie’s gotta make money. Then as is typical, looks like I’m going to do an entire month’s of sales this week. I’m swamped all of today, all of tomorrow, and probably have work to do this weekend. So good, also bad.

Except I’ve got family coming to visit for a marriage shower on Saturday. OK, but hey, why not have a vacation at SL’s house, arrive Thursday afternoon and stay til Monday? That’s ok, love to have them, but do people not realize that I work from home, and my office hours extend to 8pm? And like, this week, there’s going to be no just walking away from work. I guess they’re gonna have to entertain themselves a bit.

Too much going on at a time when I should be taking some vacation. Geesh.

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**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2026, 3:09am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/65 "2026-07-18T03:09:34Z")

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Went cardio walkies under the hot, afternoon sun. Burned some calories, but got a little too much colour on my forehead.

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**Author:** ![JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/jfg/32/8801_2.png) [@JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/u/JFG)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2026, 3:19am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/66 "2026-07-18T03:19:17Z")

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This reminded me that I haven’t walked the dog. Echo says thanks.

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**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2026, 3:20am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/67 "2026-07-18T03:20:27Z")

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Go st - walk @Echo.

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**Author:** ![JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/jfg/32/8801_2.png) [@JFG](https://community.goactuary.com/u/JFG)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2026, 3:40am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/68 "2026-07-18T03:40:39Z")

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I am!

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**Author:** ![under12parsecs](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/u/96bed5/32.png) [@under12parsecs](https://community.goactuary.com/u/under12parsecs)\
**Post date:** [July 19, 2026, 12:14am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/69 "2026-07-19T00:14:29Z")

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I missed the ferry by one car. (I would’ve made it if I didn’t get blocked in at the memorial service I attended.) However, it’s a beautiful day in the PNW.

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**Author:** ![The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/the_polymath/32/83081_2.png) [@The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/u/The_Polymath)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 1:15pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/70 "2026-07-28T13:15:17Z")

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Well, this does tail with some of my energy-sucking interactions with a few members of the extended family.

 ![Screenshot_20260728_141146_LinkedIn](https://community.goactuary.com/uploads/default/original/3X/4/1/41ce8e412cbe842bf1b9ca81f3e1a9aa3d3fe4cd.jpeg)

> **[There’s a Name for the People Who Drain You](https://www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/06/hasslers-relationships-draining/687552/)**
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> “Hasslers” make life more difficult—and we can’t escape them.

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**Author:** ![tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/b5a626/32.png) [@tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/u/tommie.frazier)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 7:28pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/71 "2026-07-28T19:28:18Z")

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People who annoy you…

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**Author:** ![Mathman](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/mathman/32/14042_2.png) [@Mathman](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Mathman)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 7:45pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/72 "2026-07-28T19:45:59Z")

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Is there a way to share the full article? I feel like my wife should read this, she’s got some hasslers in the family. Is it a coincidence that ‘hassler’ sounds a bit like ‘asshole?’

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**Author:** ![The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/the_polymath/32/83081_2.png) [@The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/u/The_Polymath)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 7:48pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/73 "2026-07-28T19:48:21Z")

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I don’t have a subscription but using a free trial seems to work for a few articles.

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**Author:** ![Maphistos\_Sidekick](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/maphistos_sidekick/32/84973_2.png) [@Maphistos\_Sidekick](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Maphistos_Sidekick)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 8:36pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/74 "2026-07-28T20:36:17Z")

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> [@Mathman](#):
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> Is there a way to share the full article?

Archive.is is your friend (if you don’t think too hard about the ethics of the IP considerations): [https://archive.is/mk8uF](https://archive.is/mk8uF)

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**Author:** ![quoll](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/quoll/32/81747_2.png) [@quoll](https://community.goactuary.com/u/quoll)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 8:37pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/75 "2026-07-28T20:37:07Z")

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> [@The\_Polymath](#):
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> I don’t have a subscription but using a free trial seems to work for a few articles.

That sounds like too much hassle.

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**Author:** ![dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/a8b319/32.png) [@dr\_t\_non-fan](https://community.goactuary.com/u/dr_t_non-fan)\
**Post date:** [July 28, 2026, 10:22pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/mixed-thoughts/12623/76 "2026-07-28T22:22:13Z")

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> [@Mathman](#):
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> Is it a coincidence that ‘hassler’ sounds a bit like ‘asshole?’

“Hassoler”

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