# Happy Thoughts

**URL:** <https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337>\
**Category:** General\
**Tags:** reactions\
**Created:** [March 12, 2021, 1:16am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337 "2021-03-12T01:16:06Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/c67d28/32.png) [@SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SteveWhite)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2024, 4:25am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2715 "2024-02-08T04:25:00Z")

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> **[You Won’t Believe What Happened When This Mom Saw Her Dog T...](https://ourfunnylittlesite.com/this-mom-saw-her-do-toss/)**
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> Animals are so much more special than we thought, and one Australian family was about to find that out in the most unexpected of ways.Dobermans are known to be quite a risky species to have as pets, especially when you have a baby at home. But when...

Originally a happy thought, and still one I suppose, but with a surprising twist. My link is from an April 2023 report. The story showed up in my Apple News feed today, reported by Buzznet on Feb 7, 2024. It’s about a Doberman, who was rescued only 4 days before he was due to be put down for an aggressive past. 4 days after adoption, he saved the rescue family’s baby from a poisonous snake, being bitten and nearly dying in the process.

So what’s the surprising twist:

> **spoilertext**
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> Not mentioned by Buzznet, the incident is from 2007

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**Author:** ![Ajstudies](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/ajstudies/32/12532_2.png) [@Ajstudies](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Ajstudies)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2024, 2:59pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2716 "2024-02-08T14:59:41Z")

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Found out what kind of coffee I like today: Blondie, iced, extra sweet.

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**Author:** ![tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/b5a626/32.png) [@tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/u/tommie.frazier)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2024, 10:40pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2717 "2024-02-08T22:40:36Z")

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> [@SteveWhite](#):
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> So what’s the surprising twist

i don’t know, but I suspect underwriters HATE that we will know it

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**Author:** ![twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/twig93/32/527_2.png) [@twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/u/twig93)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2024, 2:56am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2718 "2024-02-09T02:56:56Z")

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A nice hot relaxing Epsom salt bath makes everything better!

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**Author:** ![The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/the_polymath/32/83081_2.png) [@The\_Polymath](https://community.goactuary.com/u/The_Polymath)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2024, 4:07pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2719 "2024-02-09T16:07:17Z")

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Managed to get tickets to the nicest Carnival ball (Belmond Copacabana Palace Magic Ball) in Rio for tomorrow so that I can take the wife out kid-free for a nice black-tie formal evening.

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**Author:** ![1695814](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/1695814/32/38506_2.png) [@1695814](https://community.goactuary.com/u/1695814)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2024, 4:22pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2720 "2024-02-09T16:22:06Z")

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Daughter brushed the snow off my car this morning.

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**Author:** ![Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/breadmaker/32/83065_2.png) [@Breadmaker](https://community.goactuary.com/u/Breadmaker)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2024, 10:34pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2721 "2024-02-09T22:34:41Z")

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1. Took a walk this afternoon; sunny and about 15C!!! 🕶
2. 10 kg bag of AP flour on sale for $12: I bought 2 - AT THE SAME TIME!!!
3. Enjoying a fresh cheese danish from the Polish deli. So gooooood!!! 😋

ETA: 4. Cashed in some sbux stars for a bag of beans!!!

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**Author:** ![NerdAlert](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/nerdalert/32/683_2.png) [@NerdAlert](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NerdAlert)\
**Post date:** [February 9, 2024, 11:03pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2722 "2024-02-09T23:03:42Z")

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My husband buys some scented Epsom salt off Amazon. He likes the eucalyptus one, but I’m partial to the rosemary and mint one.

> **[Amazon.com: Amazon Basics Epsom Salt Soaking Aid, Soothing Rosemary & Mint...](https://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Brand-Solimo-Soaking-Rosemary/dp/B07P1ZDD5H)**
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> Add Amazon Basics Epsom Salt Soaking Aid to a warm bath or foot soak to help soothe sore muscles and aid in relaxation.

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**Author:** ![SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/c67d28/32.png) [@SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SteveWhite)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 3:11am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2723 "2024-02-11T03:11:36Z")

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![Screenshot 2024-02-10 at 10.11.10 PM](https://community.goactuary.com/uploads/default/original/3X/0/a/0a1af37b6659ce0261d8adceca2e18aff90c6615.jpeg)

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**Author:** ![SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/s/c67d28/32.png) [@SteveWhite](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SteveWhite)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 3:32am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2724 "2024-02-11T03:32:41Z")

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![Screenshot 2024-02-10 at 10.30.50 PM](https://community.goactuary.com/uploads/default/original/3X/7/7/77549fdac097e14badd450ac24e4aa72a9718de2.png)

Hadn’t heard about that before. Jackie Robinson gets so much press (and got far more severe abuse than that, but I’m not sure about issues with his teammates).

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**Author:** ![tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/t/b5a626/32.png) [@tommie.frazier](https://community.goactuary.com/u/tommie.frazier)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 5:20am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2725 "2024-02-11T05:20:21Z")

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the first (and only, for a bit) on every team likely had it super shitty

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**Author:** ![twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/twig93/32/527_2.png) [@twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/u/twig93)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 9:29am UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2726 "2024-02-11T09:29:03Z")

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Jackie Robinson certainly had issues with (some of) his teammates too. I imagine that a lot of black players did in the early days of integration.

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**Author:** ![twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/twig93/32/527_2.png) [@twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/u/twig93)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 5:45pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2727 "2024-02-11T17:45:11Z")

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It’s so weird, but nice, being in a healthy relationship.

I screw something up, am profusely apologetic and he… accepts my apology and we both move on and have a super fantastic rest of the weekend. What? That can happen?!?!?! No pouting and sulking for 3 months???

I thought only the guy was allowed to have imperfections. I didn’t realize that I was permitted to have shortcomings too. (OK, not really, but basically every relationship I’ve ever been in has felt that way.)

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**Author:** ![PatientZombie](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/patientzombie/32/391_2.png) [@PatientZombie](https://community.goactuary.com/u/PatientZombie)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 6:18pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2728 "2024-02-11T18:18:49Z")

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your happy thought made me sad. I am so happy you feel appreciated, i am sad that it took to this point in your life to understand that is how life should be.

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**Author:** ![SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/spacelobster/32/38216_2.png) [@SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SpaceLobster)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 6:24pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2729 "2024-02-11T18:24:49Z")

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I’m in home depot and run into this short asian woman who says hello. I’m like, where in heck do I know you from? I know here, but cannot place her.  
She runs the gas station in town. If she’d have said HELLOHOWYOUTODAAAAAY? I’d have pinned her down immediately.  
Anyway, had quite a fun conversation. I asked her about her boys because I know they hated living in this small town. Two are optometrists. One’s working in Japan. The last one’s at home hoping to be a professional gamer. I said she must be quite proud. Turns out, not so much lol. No idea what she was expecting.  
Anyway, it was a fun time having a chat. When I go to the gas station conversations are far more brief.

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**Author:** ![tty](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/tty/32/37148_2.png) [@tty](https://community.goactuary.com/u/tty)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 7:57pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2730 "2024-02-11T19:57:32Z")

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the third one’s life choice is probably not one many moms would be happy about, unless they were extremely successful at it already.

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**Author:** ![SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/spacelobster/32/38216_2.png) [@SpaceLobster](https://community.goactuary.com/u/SpaceLobster)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 8:38pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2731 "2024-02-11T20:38:01Z")

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Yeah, but I got the impression none of them had lived up to expectations. Optometrists? Not good enough?

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**Author:** ![twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/twig93/32/527_2.png) [@twig93](https://community.goactuary.com/u/twig93)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2024, 8:39pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2732 "2024-02-11T20:39:58Z")

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I would say that I understood it’s how things should be… it’s just never how they actually were. I probably normalized and tolerated too much in past relationships.

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**Author:** ![NerdAlert](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/nerdalert/32/683_2.png) [@NerdAlert](https://community.goactuary.com/u/NerdAlert)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2024, 2:50pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2733 "2024-02-12T14:50:04Z")

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My coffee has taste again!

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**Author:** ![1695814](https://community.goactuary.com/user_avatar/community.goactuary.com/1695814/32/38506_2.png) [@1695814](https://community.goactuary.com/u/1695814)\
**Post date:** [February 12, 2024, 2:51pm UTC](https://community.goactuary.com/t/happy-thoughts/2337/2734 "2024-02-12T14:51:09Z")

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☕  
Cheers!

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