I have no interest in spending $$$ on a funeral for myself. My parents have provided their wishes to my elder sister and I am fine with that. I’ve told my kids not to spend a lot of money. I was really hoping to prepay but not quite ready yet. A family funeral we attended earlier this year was prepaid and it was fine. Not sure how long ago arrangements were made tho.
I have a question: you know how people say they want their ashes thrown into the ocean or spread at this or that place? Is that even legal? I was hoping to have the cremation people take care of mine. I certainly don’t want to be responsible for anyone’s ashes and I don’t want to burden hubby/kids with that. (I probably will be responsible for my aunt’s ashes, and she wants them spread somewhere. I didn’t say no, but… will she haunt me if I don’t?)